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The best demonstrations are accidental

The scene: a group of undergraduates, maybe around thirty of them, selected from “under-represented” populations in given fields. (So, majority female, more racial minorities than usual at this university.) We’re in a large first-floor lounge near the lobby of a dormitory.

The discussion is about social class, that subtle discrimination that we pretend doesn’t exist in this country. We’re discussing ways we’ve noticed class differences on campus, and one of the students points out in the lobby at a big stack of brightly colored cloth bags. “There’s one right there.”

“I was wondering about those,” says the facilitator. “What are they?”

Almost in unison, the students chorus, “Laundry bags.”

“Do you mean some students have their laundry done for them? Don’t all the dorms have laundry machines?”

In unison again, “Yes.”

The facilitator makes a face. I think they would have laughed, then, if it hadn’t been so sad.

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At camp one year I was doing batiking, and part of doing it involved ironing the wax-covered fabric. So I asked how to do it, figuring I’d be told to cover it with newspaper, or whatever it is you do so that you don’t get wax all over the iron. Instead, she showed me how to iron a piece of fabric — just plain, flat, fabric. I explained that I knew how to iron, and she said oh, none of the other campers ever know how to iron.

It amazes me, the things people can’t do. I once taught an ex how to make a stir-fry; he was, at the time, in his early or mid 30s.

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